FAQ
Frequently asked questions
Welcome! Here’s everything you might want to know about our wedding at Silver Oaks Chateau near St. Louis. If you have more questions, don’t hesitate to reach out!
When and where is the wedding?
Our wedding will take place Friday, September 25th, 2026 at Silver Oaks Chateau, just outside St. Louis. The ceremony and reception are both at the venue.
Is there a dress code?
We suggest semi-formal to formal attire. Since it’s outdoors, please consider comfortable shoes.
Are children invited?
We love your little ones, but children outside our immediate family are not permitted. We appreciate your understanding.
Where should we stay?
We’ve blocked rooms at nearby hotels for your convenience. Please mention our wedding when booking to get the group rate. You can learn more on the Travel page.
Do I need to RSVP?
Yes! RSVP is required so we can plan seating and catering. Please RSVP by July 31th, 2026.
Is the registry mandatory?
Absolutely not! Gifts are completely optional. Your presence is what matters most to us.
Will there be transportation?
Please note that we will not be providing shuttle service, but Silver Oaks Chateau has plenty of parking for guests, and ride-share services are readily available in the area.
Can I bring a plus-one?
Please check your invitation, only the guests listed are invited. If your invitation includes a plus-one, be sure to include them when you RSVP.
Weather considerations
Since the wedding is outdoors, please plan for sun or light rain. If the weather turns inclement, the ceremony and reception will move to the Grand Hall at the venue. In late September, St. Louis typically experiences highs around 75°F and lows around 53°F.
Other things to know
- The ceremony and reception are at the same venue—no transportation between locations needed.
- The wedding is on a Friday, so you might want to plan for an overnight stay.
- Dinner, dancing, and celebration will follow the ceremony.
We’re so excited to celebrate with you! If you have questions not covered here, please reach out to the bride or groom with anything we missed.